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Since arriving in Brussels, I have noticed that the Europeans like their risque advertisements.  It is not uncommon to be sitting in a bus stop, glance up, and see a large photo ad of a man in his skivvies modeling a cell phone or bottled water.  Nudity is just not weird here (at least in the minds of Europeans).  A girl in one of my classes offered me her gossip mag once she was finished with it, and I excitedly accepted.  As I flipped through the pages, I noticed that this little gem was not quite the same as my American favorite, People - and not just because it was in French.  While this magazine featured a similar section of celebrity photos, the actual content was very foreign to me.  There were photographs of topless women that would never have made it on to American newsstands.  This cultural discrepancy has inspired me to research the advertising gap between the US and Europe for an assignment in my Intercultural Communication class.  I have already found some really interesting websites that highlight this stark contrast, including AdsOfTheWorld.com.

As I write this entry, I can't help but be distracted from my thoughts by the noisy street below our apartment.  There is always an ample amount of honking going on.  The drivers here are really rather aggressive.  More than once, when I've been Skyping with someone back home, they overhear a car engine as it roars through the streets and ask, "What is that???"  But it's just the sound of European road rage.  No big deal.  People like to stop very suddenly, and accelerate just as quickly, and scrape past one another with tricky maneuvers that would make me cringe were I driving on the road with them.  They truly love zipping about in their little green cars.

Overall, this week has been pretty uneventful and low key.  I think that I am finally getting used to the work and class schedule.  I've definitely gotten the whole bus thing down, so I can just tune into my iPod on the way to work and not really pay attention.  I haven't quite gotten used to the abrupt stops and holding my balance while standing on the bus, but I somehow feel that my clumsiness will prevent me from ever mastering such tricks.


Last night at our weekly Furman meeting, we had a guest speaker.  His name is Jonathan Addleton, and he is the new Ambassador to Mongolia.  He has worked in Brussels for the past few years, focusing on aid and development in the EU, and he has worked in a number of different places including Cambodia, Yemen, and Jordan just to name a few.  One of the points that he made that really struck me in light of our trip to Ypres was that the devastation of the world wars is apparent as you travel through Europe.  While I have learned about these wars in history, it is quite another thing to actually encounter these "foreign" territories and witness the tension that still lingers below the surface.
 
I have survived my first week of classes at Vesalius. Today, I had intercultural communication which looks like it will be fascinating. The course examines the overlaps in cultural communications, and the interactions among different cultures. We have to keep a journal of our own intercultural experiences and turn it in as a creative piece...this will be a fun assignment for me. I have already encountered a number of cultural challenges which have peaked my curiosity and captured my attention.

For instance, I have noticed that customer service is not one of the strong points in Brussels. With a few years of waitressing under my belt, this really stood out to me. I am very accustomed to encountering waitresses and cashiers that have permanent smiles plastered on their faces. Whether fake or sincere, it is customary. When someone receives a handbook on training in customer service, a smile and polites exchanges are at the very top of the list. Now don't get me wrong, there is the occassional grumpy waiter or arrogant saleswoman, but that is more of an exception in the US than it is over here. In Brussels, however, the cashiers typically scowl and mumble, unenthusiastic about "putting the customer first". I have encountered a few who are very pleasant and polite, but those are few and far between. Perhaps it is because I am merely a stupid American, and I am difficult to deal with. But maybe not?

Anyway, my European excursions are in the works! I have plans to go to Paris, Madrid, Venice, and Amsterdam (tentatively) with some of the girls on the trip. It is so bizarre to me that flying from country to country over here is just as easy as going from state to state in the US. It also helps that I have friends in different European countries (Spain, France, Italy, the Netherlands) who I can visit. I am determined to take advantage of it while I can!

Oh and just for an update: my roommate Nora successfully survived the "Death Ride" at the Atomium yesterday! She said it was quite the rush. Wish I could have joined, but computer complications sent me on an unanticipated tour of the Brussels metro system. At least I made some computer savvy friends along the way.